One of the most difficult steps in tackling domestic violence is first acknowledging that it’s taking place. It may have been something that has built up over several years of living together as a married couple or it may have become apparent in the early stages of a relationship. According to domestic abuse charity Living Without Abuse, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men are affected by domestic abuse in their lifetime, and it accounts for 16% of all violent crime. But although domestic violence is often thought of as physical or sexual, it can be more subtle. New laws came into effect at the end of 2015 which extends legal protections for those suffering from repeated “controlling or coercive behaviour” – which basically targets anyone who subjects spouses, partners, exes and family members to psychological or emotional abuse which stops short of violence.
Other than arresting the perpetrator of domestic violence, police can impose a domestic violence protection notice (DVPN) in the immediate aftermath of an incident. This essentially means that the accused individual is banned from returning to your home or contacting you for up to 48 hours. A magistrate must then review the DVPN and decide whether to extend it for up to 28 days, in which case they will apply a domestic violence protection order (DVPO).
How can the courts help you if you’re suffering from domestic violence?
A family lawyer can advise you on the longer term legal remedies for domestic violence issues. They can ask the court to grant a non-molestation order against your spouse, partner, ex, cohabitee or close family member – which aims to prevent them from being violent or threatening violence, intimidating, harassing or pestering you or your children. As well as addressing face to face issues at home or work, it can also apply to phone, email and social media communication. Furthermore, your solicitor can apply for an occupation order if you need the perpetrator of domestic violence to move out of your shared family home.
Effects of domestic violence on your divorce
If you’re trying to get a divorce – either because of domestic violence or in spite of it – proceedings can be more difficult. You may be unable to sort out the practical implications of getting a divorce, such as agreeing on how to split finances or make arrangements for any children, without going to court. Although an online divorce service can speed up the divorce process, it is more useful for divorcing couples who are still on amicable terms. So it’s best to ask a lawyer to assist you in your divorce when you are encountering issues of domestic violence.